Are you a good Speaker? — High4Teens | G Surendar Thina

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2 min readJun 1, 2019

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Are you? At the beginning of life, we hadn’t spoken and the whole family wanted you to speak. And then when you started speaking, you asked them questions which they couldn’t answer and they asked you to shut. They always wanted you to keep quiet. Whatever we spoke and asked, didn’t have a point, as they were always unheard and unanswered. It all started from there that most of us never bothered speaking what really makes sense. We spoke what made sense to us and never thought about the listener if it would really make a sense for him at all. Many times, people speak anything to defend their image or their point which ultimately might have no sense. To a certain extent, the listener hears it and try to argue and in the worst case, they ignore.

Ultimately, you speak no matter he listens or not, nonsense, things get forgotten and you keep moving on. This is not in general. I’m more specific to the talks that we all have towards our goals. I appreciate that most of the people speak about a lot of ways to execute something and achieve their passion. But, more often, they happen to overspeak stuff to defend their points and finally end up dreaming cooked up stuff and succeed in failing. These people speak anything to defend their image or their point which ultimately might have no sense.

To every one of you reading this, please please Hustle yourselves for your passion! Do not speak unless required. You do not have to boast about your work before or when you have just started, to anyone. Most of them will be happy to give you suggestions until you fail. Once you do fail, they’ll stop suggesting because their suggestions have gone in vain and they get experienced from you upon their points. So, I would always request you to keep up your work and hustle for your passion. Pick up the right people to speak stuff. Once the people start speaking about you, you need not speak at all. All your hard work and the process will turn in to voices and speak about you for you.

Author: gsthina | Surendar Thina Ganesan

Speak the least now, so that they’ll have time to speak about you later.

Originally published at http://www.high4teens.in on June 1, 2019.

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